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Welp

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I actually decided to make a new account. You can catch me at Dameinatrix now.



I have closed all the comments on my remaining stamps.
I do not know whether I will upload any new stamps here or on the other account, but I don't really plan to make any stamps. I may take up stamp point commissions on the other account, though. It depends on how I feel.

I will be reuploading old art to Dameinatrix as well as uploading new art. But right now I am starting with old art.

deviantART doesn't allow explicit content, so my weird porn writing will all still be on my Weasyl account. Again, you have to be a member and 18+ in order to see it! Though I do submit it to my Tumblr as well, under "nsfw text" (I can't directly link it based on deviantART rules, or at least the last time I looked).

I have blocked a lot of people preemptively, based on comments, replies, notes, etc I've gotten as well as from tiny bits of browsing and, unfortunately, giving up on former friends and people I used to watch. 

I didn't have a good blocklist here because I stubbornly refused to block people and believed it a sign of weakness. But the fact is, I don't owe anyone my time, so I block people now. 

I've tried to be lenient based on the fact it's been a very long time since I've talked to some people and I don't have time to browse around everyone's profiles to see how they are now. If you think I may have mistakenly blocked you, you can let me know.

Who Needs Sex Ed? (We Do!) now has the ask box open! 

That's it, bye.
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The only reason I am here is to post this update. As I've said before many, many times and made it as clear as possible: I am not active on deviantART anymore.


So in lieu of replacing citations and rewriting entire stamp descriptions, I've just removed a lot of my stamps. There's a lot of things I don't agree with anymore, and a lot of things that needed to be fixed but that I didn't have the time nor energy to do so. So, I just gave up, and now only have a few stamps available. 

However I did do another batch upload for pride month. I was going to accompany it with an art dump to show everyone what I've been up to, but... eh, not really in the mood for that either. I was also wanting to draw my own characters in their pride shirts but... also not quite capable of doing that.

You can still take a look if you want. My art is all on Weasyl, and if you're 18+ and a member you can read my porn! Isn't that exciting!?

Who Needs Sex Ed has the inbox open now, if you have anything you want to ask. We try to get back to people within a week. 

That's really all I have to say.

[edit] If you like my Pride Stamps, I do have some pride designs, and general LGBT+ designs, for sale on RedBubble. Not super original stuff, but I'm trying to make it easier to get non-rainbow pride stuff, ya know? 
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The only reason I am here is to post this update. As I've said before many, many times and made it as clear as possible: I am not active on deviantART anymore.



Some may have noticed my Tumblr blog is missing.

It was deleted and I don't know why, Tumblr never answered me, and I tried for months and many different methods to get their attention. So, at this point, suffice to say the assumption is it's gone.

Which means a LOT of the resources I linked in my stamps are also "gone". However, a lot of those resources still exist, I just have to find them. Since WNSE was recovered, a lot of them are there.

This happened like back in September, and the reason I've been so delayed in saying anything comes down to 1. I wanted to make sure my blog was unrecoverable, and 2. it's going to take a long time and a lot of effort to fix all the things that got broken with its sudden disappearance, and that includes the citations I've given on my stamps, and I didn't want to announce the problem until I was ready to do that.

I'm not, but I've decided I should at least notify where my new blog is.

My new blog is bizarropurugly.

As stated, WNSE was able to be recovered and remains, although we still have our inbox closed (sorry).

I've also moved 99% of "political" things and similar discussions to the blog dandymeowth.



The only reason I am here is to post this update. As I've said before many, many times and made it as clear as possible: I am not active on deviantART anymore.

I've also managed to find out why a lot of pages were breaking so the tag pages and resource pages on WNSE are under construction and I'm forming my pages on my new blogs around that. Basically, Tumblr put a limit to how many links can be on a page or post, and the only way around it is to either custom code a page or break up your list(s) into several pages.

I will, eventually, clean up the citation/resource links on my stamps. Sorry it's taking so long.

And if you're wanting my art, my Weasyl is still DameGreyWulf. I also sell (simple) designs on Red Bubble.
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In case nobody noticed (and, checking my profile comments, nobody did):
I am no longer active here.

It's been... shit... 9? 10? or more? years, and I've come to yet another point in which I am done with this crapfest. I don't know if this is permanent but it might be this time. Who knows?

I know I was doing good there, bringing weekly news and petitions and important shit to discuss while I took time to decide what to stamp. But time stretched on and I realized, I don't really have anything new to say that could be compacted into a little sticker on the Internet. I mean I have plenty to say, just... nothing I can put into something catchy and/or short for appearances and then explained further in the description.
I also realized deviantART is almost as bad as YouTube as far as cesspool factor goes. If you're looking for reasons to shoot yourself in the head, look no further than the stamps category.

So I kinda just went "ehhhhh I don't really care?" and took off because I was too busy and unsatisfied in life to bother with babysitting screaming children from dA (including the admins).

I debated whether to come back but every time I thought about it I just got this horrible grimace on my face. And I don't really have any friends here anymore? Everyone either bailed the Internet or moved to Tumblr.
There's honestly no reason for me to be here on any level as much fun as it is making Lord Elthibar shit his babby Christian diaper.
(Seriously that guy left me like a billion messages on YouTube and I had to disabled commenting on a lot of shit because he wouldn't go the fuck away he literally can not stand women who speak against men, fucking creep)

But I logged in since some people didn't get the memo and are intent on having a hissy fit on the lawn of my former residence. I logged in to leave this notice that I'm gone so they can beat it. Or maybe they're too busy masturbating over how smurt they are and how they totes showed me to realize they're talking to empty air. Oh well.

I'm not even going to LOOK at the 4k replies/comments/etc that I have. Sorry dears.
The only thing I checked was my notes. A few pissbabies (check out my #deviantart tag on Tumblr for shots of some of the fun), mostly just thanks, and a couple things I need to address:

1. I am not a crisis counselor. I can do my best!! but I am not a professional. I'm sorry I wasn't there in your time of need, but I'm ALWAYS up for talking to on Tumblr. I have plenty of resources and know others who can be of more help. Or I can just be a listening ear. I currently don't have a way of being contacted more privately, unfortunately.

2. If you want to feature any of my stamps, PLEASE GO AHEAD!! I have no rules for my stamps. Shit, take them and upload them yourself I don't give a fuck they're just stamps.

3. If you have a problem with a stamp of mine or something I said in a stamp, message me on Tumblr. I was in the process of cleaning up gross stamps/descriptions when I left so there may be a few left. This is not an invitation for you to show off your ~debate~ dick so keep it in your pants and leave.

To the people who are trying their damnedest to give me an aneurism with their bullshit ideas: your opinions are fucking stupid, yes I do indeed hate you, you're not changing my mind through your spitting, and you need to leave the planet before you cause more harm.


[Credit: my lovely buddy Kinga]

If you want anything to do with me, check out my Tumblr. It's got plenty of social justice stuff, and also cats, but it's got a lot of silly and personal things too, so if you're just looking for social justice stuff check out my side blog and my sex ed blog. Navigate tags, very important.

If you're looking SPECIFICALLY for my art, check out my Weasyl. Weasyl's pretty great! So far, admins aren't shitty, you can post pretty much anything you want (including mature shit), pretty geared toward art instead of being a social network, so yeah come have fun.

I wanted to list some people you should watch instead for more social justice works but I don't like playing favourites and since I've become so detached I don't know if I can 100% vouch for these people anymore. So that's not happening, sorry.

I guess that's everything I gotta say.

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Once again, I'm sorry for the delay, and, once again, I'm not answering any comments or replies I've received. I've answered Notes, so if you have something pressing, you can Note me, or you can talk to me on my Tumblr.

I'm about to start my student teaching sessions so I'll be less likely to do these weekly and more likely to do these biweekly. We'll see what happens. Considering that, it makes sense that these might get more congested; that is, I'll have more links and quotes for you if we go biweekly. I've set the limit to cut myself off after 60 pages of backtracking through my Tumblr to find these things. It may seem like a lot, but, actually, I have a lot of cat photos. A lot of cat photos.

I may just turn this account into a submissions-only account, at least until school's over. That is, where I only post and never respond.

In better news, The Lego Movie has earned around 10x the revenue Frozen has, and Frozen has been out for months. Nicely done. Now if only we could get people to stop crowing that Frozen is the next Lion King (it seriously isn't, please stop saying this).
That being said, let's get on with this.

Also I'm gonna promo my blog: Who Needs Sex Ed? (We Do!)

Transtrenders: A Guide
Mom Charged for Helping Daughter Obtain Illegal Abortion: Is This Our New Reality?
Can You Tell the Difference Between a Men's Magazine and a Rapist?
Repeal of Missouri's Background Checks Law Linked to Increase in Murders
This is What Clinics Look Like with No Buffer Zone
Houseless Trans Facts
Tone Policing
Animals Cannot Consent
An Excerpt from "Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men" (And Another)
Stand Your Ground Laws and Race
Discrimination Against the Pregnant and the Pregnant Workers Fairness Act
Thousands of India's Disabled Protest to Demand Equal Rights
"can you explain in detail why minorities living in impoverished areas is a direct result of racism?"
Russia Expands LGBT Adoption Ban to All Countries with Same-Sex Marriage
Black History Month Isn't Making Life Better for Black Americans
The Empowerment Elite Claims Feminism
Avery Edison Detained at Toronto's Pearson Airport and They Don't Know What to Do With Trans People
Exotic Pets Are Contributing to Extinctions
Post Abortion Counseling and Care: What Is Safe?
The Dunn Trial
Remembering Rosewood
Generalizing the Privileged

dangercupcakemurdericing says:

A lot of people are against the idea of touching on mental illness at all in children’s books, with the idea that we need to protect children from such adult topics. I have some shocking news.

Mentally ill children exist, and they notice the way characters that are “crazy” are treated. They notice their absence, and they notice when the narrative supports locking mentally ill people away for their own good. They notice the lack of role models.

bisexualsaregreat says:

Bisexual as attraction to men and women is a heteronormative definition. 

Bisexual as attraction to same and different genders is the bisexual communities definition. 

When queer people say that bisexual reinforces a gender binary, tell them they sound like straight people.

tacobelligerent says:
i feel like people who say ‘hate breeds more hate’ or ‘you cant fight fire with fire’ are the types of kids that used to come to your house and do a bunch of annoying shit and say ‘oh well im the guest’ but when you go to their house they do a bunch of annoying shit and go ‘well its my house’

boy-of-defeat says:
accept that if youre cis youre probably cissexist, make changes in your life and thoughts to try and counter that, challenge yourself, don’t be secure in the fact that you’re a “Good Cis Person”, understand you still probably have a lot of inbuilt stigma and other gross things influencing your thoughts and actions and it will probably always be that way

I say:
People seem to forget that protests are extremely difficult. This isn’t even taking disability into account - protests take a shit ton of planning and organizing and money and etc. And you have to have a specific reason for protesting - you can’t just run outside with a group of people and scream “No more ableism!”, you have to be specific or you’re not going to get anything done. That’s why social networking sites and campaign and lobby group email/petition lists are so useful - quick, easy, and you CAN randomly make a rant about ableism and reach a wide platform and change minds. Grassroots, people, grassroots.

Sacking Rome: A Magazine for Vandals Issue One:
Why should kids be taught to hate the police? Because there are 2.3 million people in jail in the US right now and every single one was put there by a fucking cop. Some people talk about good cops and bad cops, but a good cop, a cop doing their job properly, still puts nonviolent drug users in jail for many years, totally ruining their lives as they lose their jobs, houses, cars, romantic partners, access to college, and become substantially less employable upon release. A cop doing their job properly still gives homeless people tickets for vagrancy which they obviously can’t pay and when a warrant is issued as a result an officer doing their job properly arrests those homeless people. An officer doing their job properly peppersprays and arrests environmental protesters so that logging companies can clear-cut old growth forests. An officer doing their job properly is evicting a family from their home as you read this because the parents’ jobs were shipped overseas so that the bosses could make eight figures a year instead of seven. Those people will become homeless, vagrancy tickets will be written, warrants will be issued… And then there’s the “bad ones”.

dick-smelter says:
If it’s too “awkward” for you to teach your kids how to clean their genitals, you’re probably a terrible parent and shouldn’t have kids until you do some growing up.

fozmeadows says:
If you really believe that representation doesn’t matter, then why the fuck are you threatened by it? If not seeing yourself depicted in stories has no negative psychological impact - if the breakdown of who we see on screen has no bearing on wider social issues - then what would it matter if nine stories out of ten were suddenly all about queer brown women? No big, right? It wouldn’t change anything important; just a few superficial details. Because YOU can identify with ANYONE. So I guess the problem is that you just don’t want to. Because deep down, you think it’ll make stories worse. And why is that? Oh, yeah: because it means they wouldn’t all be about YOU.

trashboat says:
"not all ______ are like that!" and "if they do that then they’re not a REAL ______" are basically code for "thats not my problem and i only care about making sure i don’t feel responsible for it"




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